What would you do if you paid $60k to get help with your money beliefs and you ended up still struggling with the same issues, worse off than before?
I’m going to walk you through some of the common mistakes that happen when Christian Female Entrepreneurs are trying to make peace with money so that you can avoid them completely.
And if you’ve made some of these mistakes, don’t worry, I’ll show you how it’s not your fault.
I promise to show you what kind of restoration is possible when you have a healthy Biblical understanding of money.
I promise to show you what kind of restoration is possible when you have a healthy Biblical understanding of money
That there’s hope for YOU!
So that you can truly find the freedom, healing and breakthrough in your money story which leads you to become more confident around money and go on to impact multitudes with your business and legacy of generosity that reflects God’s goodness
This is not the end of your story!
Mistake #1 Investing in a Coach Who doesn't Align With Your Faith Values
There’s a lot of talk out there about manifesting money and shifting your money beliefs so that you can receive abundance that doesn’t incorporate your Christian values and faith.
When Brooke shared with me that she had invested in several money mindset coaches in the past, before working with me, but always was left still doubting her value.
She continued to not feel worthy to receive more money, and like she was disappointing God because her business was not bringing in the revenue she desired.
Within weeks of working together, she finally understood her value and gained a healthy view of creating wealth so that she could create a legacy.
When I asked her what was different this time as compared to other money mindset coaches… why did she get these results so quickly, she said…
"The Missing piece was Scripture!"
Brooke went through the Becoming a Legacy Builder Method the #1 Scripture-based money mindset coaching program for Christian Female Entrepreneurs.
If you want to find a money mindset coach who brings in Scripture and aligns with your faith, here are 10 qualifications of what to look for in a money mindset coach.
Mistake #2 Investing in a coach who hasn't gotten the healing they claim to give
Mistake #2 is investing in a coach who doesn’t know or care about your needs and hasn’t truly gotten the healing they claim to give.
If you’re baring your soul and sharing traumatic experiences that have caused the struggles around money…
And your coach does one of two things…
You need to have the courage to stand up for yourself, ask for a refund and get out of there as quickly as possible!
- If they brush off your experiences as trivial or even make you feel stupid that you’re struggling with money because of that experience, shutting you down completely and making the coaching environment unsafe.
- If the same reason you hired the coach because of a promise to help you so that you can experience healing, now begins to ‘trigger’ the coach and they have the arrogance to blame you and continue to charge you even though they aren’t helping you a bit.. They’re only oppressing you and traumatizing you further
RUN!!
One lady, I’ll call her Mindy, shared how this exact scenario happened to her and when it was all said and done, she paid her coach $60k to learn what she already knew, had much more trauma to deal with, and let her coach blame her for ‘triggering’ him too much.
That should never happen!
#3 Investing In Someone Who Isn't an expert
Mistake #3 looks like investing in someone who isn’t an expert in getting to the root issues of your money beliefs so that you can get the breakthroughs you desire.
There are lot of financial advisors and money mindset coaches who may be good at a specific area connected to money, but they aren’t qualified or an expert in the areas you are looking for support in.
Nancy shared about how she recognized she needed help with money because of past mistakes and then ended up with someone who claimed that they could help her with her investments… only to guide her into some really bad investments and not guide her into a better understanding of how to make healthy money decisions.
This bad investment just heaped more money shame upon her until she started working with me.
She needed a coach who was both sensitive to her needs and someone who could help her see where her money shame was coming from through the lens of Jesus’ redemption for her money story.
Nancy wanted to go deep in order to work on her money mindset with a coach who could get to know her and guide her to fast results, with a Biblical foundation. She chose VIP Money Mindset Coaching.
So many women tell me stories and experiences like this, it makes me so angry that there are coaches out there who are just interested in taking your money without helping you get any breakthrough whatsoever.
If you’ve made some of these same mistakes like my clients have in working with a coach like this…
It’s not your fault
It's not your fault!
Yes, you need to do your due diligence in the kind of support you invest in so that you can truly get the promised results and breakthroughs.
But … you were doing the best you could to ask for help in healing your money story, and you believed that these coaches could and would help you.
These coaches weren't operating in integrity
- These coaches weren’t operating in integrity and genuinely caring about your needs, about you.
- They weren’t committed to walking alongside you every step of the way so that you could truly get the freedom and peace of mind you were looking for.
- They didn’t deliver on their promises.
This brings to mind Proverbs 11:1
Proverbs 11:1 The LORD detests dishonest scales, but accurate weights find favor with him.
This scripture talks about making false statements and promises as a business owner that they have no ability or intention to carry out is detestable to the Lord.
He gets angry on your behalf, that you had to go through a situation like this.
There are multiple other Scripture passages that show God’s heart rising up against business owners who take advantage of and oppress those who pay them for a service or product that will make their lives better.
This type of business practices goes against the character of God.
God cares so much about you and desires that you would experience complete healing and freedom from this area of oppression where you haven’t received the money mindset breakthroughs that you paid for and ended up even worse off.
This type of business practices goes against the character of God.
He wants us (as business owners) to partner with Him to serve others and make the world a better place through our business.
The Restoration of Your Money story
God wants to see you be set free from all the money shame, fear and guilt that has held you captive for so many years.
He wants you to receive and experience Jesus’s redemption in every aspect of your relationship with money so that you can know His love, favor and care for you in all areas of your life.
Money is a topic very close to God’s heart, there are well over 2000 verses that explicitly talk about money plus many more that indirectly talk about money.
Money touches every area of your life and is vitally important
It is through having a healthy, Biblical understanding of the purpose of money, that will cause you to know God more deeply and be a wise steward of the financial resources He has given you to manage.
As you see the connection between money and partnering with God’s word to serve others, making their lives better, you will create an incredible legacy that reflects God’s goodness and draws others to know Him.
Is this bringing hope to you today?
Read this Psalm with the lens of how God wants to bring justice to you inside your money story!
Psalm 146:5-9
Blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the LORD his God, the Maker of heaven and earth, the sea, and everything in them.
He remains faithful forever.
He executes justice for the oppressed and gives food to the hungry.
The LORD sets the prisoners free, the LORD opens the eyes of the blind, the LORD lifts those who are weighed down, the LORD loves the righteous.
The LORD protects foreigners; He sustains the fatherless and the widow, but the ways of the wicked He frustrates.
When you find a money mindset coach who knows God’s heart for money and brings in Scripture to help you get past the money confusion, doubts and shame so that you can experience the life-giving redemption in your money story, God will speedily bring healing and restoration!
I see it happen all the time!
You are Forgiven
Even if right now you don’t believe you’re worthy of this kind of goodness and generosity from God’s hand, you will experience powerful money mindset breakthroughs when you incorporate Scripture!
We’ve all made mistakes with money… and all of these mistakes have already been forgiven and forgotten. You are forgiven.
You shouldn’t have to live a day longer carrying the weight of the past money mistakes, especially ones that weren’t your fault to begin with.
Now you know
Now you know several mistakes that can cost you $60k or more and leave you worse off than before, so you don’t do them…
Now you know what kind of hope + restoration there is available for you in your money story…
This is a guide will show you exactly what to look for so that you can find a Scripture-based money mindset coach you trust to get you the powerful breakthroughs you’ve been praying for and renew your confidence with money as well as your business.
Getting these money mindset breakthroughs is important so that you can impact multitudes through your business and create a massive legacy of generosity that reflects God’s goodness to all around you.
